Living in Sin

On our anniversary, (which we celebrated exactly once in 19 years), I told Xman that I wasn't willing to go on like this. After some discussion, his absolute refusal to get therapy, and his admission that he had checked out years before, we decided to divorce. We filed papers. 61 days later, a judge wished me good things for the rest of my life and I returned home to my now-ex-husband. Neither of us can afford to move out and continue to pay for the house, so until it sells, we are living in sin....except there is no sin. Not even a temptation. Not for years.